She’s Been Ghosted By Guys On 4 Different Occasions, And She’s Feeling Really Insecure And Hurt About It
This 26-year-old girl has been dating for a year now, and she’s having a hard time with guys ghosting her.
She pretty much never goes out on a date, but she feels like when she does say yes, there’s a 50% chance or greater that she’s going to get ghosted by the guy.
She’s been ghosted on 4 different occasions, and the first and third occasions are still so hurtful to her that she’s struggling to move on.
On the first occasion, she met this guy and spoke to him over the course of 4 months. She could tell he was not exactly available emotionally, and he even told her that, but she kept on chasing after him.
When he ghosted her, she felt like it was her fault, as there were warning signs that she ignored, but that didn’t make the situation hurt any less.
The second time she got ghosted, it was somewhat of a long-distance situationship. One of her friends set her up with this guy, and they spent more than a month texting back and forth.
Eventually, he quit responding to her, and she found out from her friend that he said she was “too nice,” and he needed a girl who was more “toxic.”
Her third ghosting encounter was with a guy she met on a dating app. They met up at a music festival and spent the whole night together.
After that, they did not speak for half a year, but then they thought it would be a good idea to go on vacation to Florida with one another.
Drobot Dean – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
“We were there for a week, and I got to be honest, I thought I was falling for him,” she explained.
“We went to Disney, went to the beach, and saw a lot of wildlife. We had a lot of fun. I paid for his flight and Disney, and at the end of it, he owed me $500, and he told me he would pay me back. One week after Florida, ghosted.”
“Fourth ghost was the other day. I matched with this guy on Hinge, and we had a lot in common and a lot to talk about. We talked for four days nonstop. We finally had a date, and he didn’t reply to my after-date text. It’s been two days since the date, and I’ve already gotten over it.”
She just feels so insecure and hurt that she’s been ghosted with such frequency. How do you think she can get over this?
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