A 32-year-old woman is currently married to her husband, who is 44, and a couple of days ago, she discovered a terrible secret about her husband.
She ended up stumbling upon a blog page that her husband had been using like an online diary, and he confessed a lot of things in there that left her utterly horrified.
In her husband’s diary, he completely confessed to baby-trapping her as soon as he met her.
“He was an older man; he was estranged from his first wife at the time,” she explained. “I was clueless and desperate, a college dropout with a baby only six months old, living with my parents.”
“He charmed my parents. He charmed my sister and her husband. Held my son and was so caring to us at the time. My whole family was poor, and he offered to “help out,” and he followed through on that. Bought me milk, diapers, medicines, and gave me expensive jewelry…”
“Then I got pregnant. I was just 21, and my first pregnancy had been unplanned, and a c-section, and I was terrified, but he talked me into keeping the baby and said he’d always help me. Said he’d marry me, that he was the love of my life, and he would divorce his wife soon… and he did.”
Her husband divorced his first wife just like he said he would, and then he got married to her. Then, they ended up moving to the country that he is from, where they went on to have three additional children.
Now, from her husband’s first marriage, he already had three children with his first wife.
Her husband’s family is quite wealthy, and her husband landed a cushy job working for his family’s connections, and she admits he really doesn’t do anything except pretend to be preoccupied.
Lars Zahner – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
Anyway, back to her husband’s diary: he admitted that he only picked out his first wife since she was super smart and graduated from a fancy college.
In contrast, her husband never completed a college degree, and so he figured his first wife would help him have intelligent kids.
So, he ended up baby-trapping her, and his first wife got pregnant when he messed with their means of preventing a pregnancy.
Her husband quickly married his first wife, they welcomed 2 more children, and then she decided to leave him actually.
Her husband craftily was able to get his first wife diagnosed with a mental illness, along with his family, who helped him, which resulted in him getting custody of his children from his first marriage.
“After this, he “selected” me because of my looks and me being a lot younger,” she said. “Rinse, repeat.”
“It turns out I am just an object to him. I never felt fully at ease, but I also couldn’t explain why I never felt fully at ease.”
She has tried to discuss this with her loved ones, but every time she tried to bring it up, they told her she was being crazy because her husband was charming and quite generous.
So, she pushed her feelings down and devoted herself to being a mom.
“He even wrote on his blog that he was happy I had a baby already because “this time she would not think of me as the one who ruined her life, because another dude already knocked her up first,” she continued.
“It’s all just so gross, but I can’t stop scrolling and reading his thoughts too. There’s so, so much of it. He’s not the person I thought he was or not the person he presented himself to be all these years. I’m 100% sure his ex isn’t “crazy” like he portrayed her but another gaslit victim.”
“I’m super confused, and I don’t know what to do. I also don’t have a job and am a full-time mother, so this is a scary situation to be in. What do I do?”
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