A 26-year-old girl has a boyfriend who is 30-years-old, and recently, she discovered that he keeps a secret folder saved on his phone.
She stumbled upon the folder accidentally, and eventually, her boyfriend did admit to her that he does have a secret folder.
She knows that he keeps photos of random, hot girls in this folder; many of them are models on Instagram or girls who share their photos elsewhere online.
Her boyfriend has taken screenshots of girls he came across on dating sites, and he also has photos saved of girls that he has met in real life and even slept with too.
These photos all range; some of the girls have clothes on, and some don’t. Some of the photos are selfies, and some aren’t.
The one thing all the photos have in common is that the girls in them are, by all means, really attractive.
“It kinda broke me,” she explained. “My really low confidence got even lower. I’ve had meltdowns over it multiple times, as I now I feel whenever I see him online, he’s just there to save these photos of girls.”
“He told me…it just gives him a dopamine rush, and he likes the photos, so saves them in case they ever get deleted. He tells me he knows it’s weird, and he understands why I wouldn’t like it, BUT every time I get upset about it, he threatens to break up with me “because let’s be honest, you won’t break up with me.”
“I’ve tried to even compromise, saying I’m fine with it as long as he doesn’t save the girls he knows personally/has met. But that fell on deaf ears, and he refused point blank.”
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Her boyfriend has brushed off his photo saving as her problem for being so insecure about what he’s doing.
A couple of days ago, she went into her boyfriend’s office, and she noticed that he dropped his phone really quickly. She thought it seemed suspicious, and her boyfriend first said he was playing some kind of game, but then he caved and admitted he was on Instagram saving photos of girls that he liked.
He then revealed that he didn’t tell her outright since he knew this would make her upset. She tried to tell her boyfriend that she was just in his office to wish him goodnight, so instead of arguing with him, she simply kissed him and made her way to bed.
“I went to bed and sobbed until I fell asleep,” she said. “He never once came in to check up on me. He played video games until 7 am when I had to get up for work, and he went to sleep.”
“Today, he’s being touchier than normal and sweet. But I can’t be happy about it. I’ve been holding back tears all day. I can’t even express my upset because he’s sick of me bringing up the same problems over again, and I should leave him if I can’t get over it.”
“The fact my feelings mean less than this stupid folder kills me. I think I know what everyone is going to say.”
Would you agree that it’s best for her to leave this guy since he won’t respect her feelings about the folder?
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