She Completely Understands Why Her Boyfriend Cheated On Her, But Now That He Wants To Get Back Together, Her Loved Ones Are Horrified That She’s Entertaining The Idea
A Few Things Happened, Which Caused The Demise Of This Girl’s Relationship
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A girl used to be in a relationship with her boyfriend, but she admits that a couple of things on her end led to the end of their relationship.
She Gained A Ton Of Weight And Her Life Really Spiraled
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She was in a terrible place back then; she gained a ton of weight, she lashed out at everyone around her, and she spiraled into a depression.
She Couldn’t Bring Herself To Be There For Her Boyfriend
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She also wasn’t really able to be there for her boyfriend because of everything that she was going through.
She Grappled With Grief, Which Only Made Things Worse
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This all happened because one of her best friends sadly passed away, and she really struggled with how to deal with her grief.
Her Boyfriend Ended Up Cheating On Her
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Ultimately, her boyfriend cheated on her with one of the girls he’s been friends with since he was a kid, and he had always told her that she shouldn’t worry about this friend of his.
She Surprisingly Understood Why He Cheated
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“When he admitted everything to me because he felt guilty,” she explained. “I was obviously very hurt at first, but when he explained his view, I kind of understood.”
“I was neglecting his needs, and I did pretty much neglect our relationship, so I understood why he did what he did.”
She Was Pretty Impossible To Be Around
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“I gained so much weight that I didn’t even look like me anymore and was overall so hard to be around; everyone had to walk on eggshells around me because I was in such a fragile, aggressive state.”
Her Boyfriend Maintained He Still Loved Her
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“He told me that he loved me and still wanted to be with me, but it’s hard for him given my state, and he did want me to get better and not break up so he could be there for me.”
She Wasn’t Angry At Her Boyfriend
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When her boyfriend was done sharing all of this with her, she did not feel mad at him at all. Her boyfriend made such an effort to get her help, but she ignored it.
If She Was In His Shoes, She Would Have Dumped Herself
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She can look back on things now and say that if their roles had been reversed, she definitely would have dumped herself.
Despite the fact that she understood why her boyfriend cheated on her, she asked if they could break up, as she could not look at him in the same way anymore.
They Ultimately Broke Up
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So, they did split up, and that was about half a year ago. In the months since her breakup, she pulled herself out of her depression, and she managed to lose all of the weight that she had put on.
She Forgave Her Now Ex-Boyfriend
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She can honestly say that she has forgiven her now ex-boyfriend for cheating, and a large piece of her still is in love with him to this day.
A Couple Weeks Ago, She Ran Into Him
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Well, several weeks back, she ran into him, and they began chatting and even spending time together.
She’s pretty much planning on dating him again, but her loved ones are horrified with her for even entertaining this idea.
Her Friends And Family Don’t Agree With Her Thinking Of Giving Him Another Chance
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They think she’s making an enormous mistake, but she doesn’t agree with them.
She’s Beginning To Think Maybe They’re Right
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“I feel like they’re only saying this because of the way the situation looks at face value,” she said.
“I know what actually happened and his perspective; that’s why I’m willing to try again, but after hearing what all of them said, IDK if I’m just overlooking red flags because I still love him.”
She Feels Lost
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“Taking everything into account and looking at it objectively, do you think that I should get back with him? I feel so lost, RN.”
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