She’s Only Been Married For A Couple Of Months And She Just Snooped Through Her Husband’s Computer And Found Out He’s Still Following The Girl He Emotionally Cheated On Her With
A 20-year-old girl got married to her husband, who is also 20, just a couple of months ago, and their relationship has hit a couple of speed bumps in the past.
She and her husband spent a couple of years dating on and off, but then they decided to commit. Despite their commitment to one another, they frequently broke up and got back together.
During one of their get-back-together phases, her husband revealed to her that he met another girl and fell in love with her while they were broken up.
“He couldn’t seem to let her go, and even after me and him got serious, he kept trying to get with this woman, only I think he kept her in the dark about me (he wasn’t super clear about his, but I think he was feeling guilty and trying to put some of the blame on her, but honestly I don’t even know what to believe),” she explained.
“I was…gutted. We almost broke up for good, only I put some stipulations in place about us being together and what he had to do to earn back trust (getting into therapy, not being in contact with her, and that sort of thing).”
Her husband put the effort in to show her he really was being a better person and a better partner to her.
Her husband made her feel like he would go out of his way to do anything she needed in order to remain with her, and it made her feel special.
Eventually, he did propose to her too, and that day was the most incredible moment of her whole life.
After getting engaged, it was pretty much rainbows and unicorns, though right before their wedding, they had some issues with money, yet they worked through it.
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She’s been walking on cloud nine since the wedding, but this week, she began feeling super unconfident, and it seemingly came out of nowhere.
She took it upon herself to snoop through her husband’s computer, and she found out that he began following that girl he emotionally cheated on her with through Reddit.
She could see in her husband’s history that he started following this girl literally while she was shopping for a wedding dress with his mom and her own mom.
Interesting that at that time, her husband felt it best to look this girl up and see what she was doing.
It crushed her to find this all out, especially considering the fact that this girl nearly spelled the end of her own relationship with her husband.
“She does have a few photos of herself because she’s into working out or something and posts in some of the fitness subs, but mostly her account is just her talking about cute animals, hobbies, and other little random things,” she said.
“It breaks my heart, but honestly, she just seems like a really kind, innocent woman. I started googling her, and that didn’t help because I just found a bunch of stuff about how amazing she is and all the ways she’s helped her community.”
“She seems kind of wealthy and does philanthropic stuff, well-educated, and more.”
All the lovely thing she uncovered about this girl has made her feel even worse about herself, and it also hurts that this girl is gorgeous.
She kept digging around and noticed that this girl and her husband have not exchanged any messages, but still, she wanted to find out if anything was still going on between them.
So, she looked this girl up on LinkedIn and messaged her asking what was happening.
“But now I’m too freaked out to even bring this up to him because he’ll know I was snooping, and I know it’s going to come out that I sent her some messages, and I don’t know what he’ll do about that,” she continued.
“But this sucks because it feels like a part of him belongs to her, and I don’t even know if he realizes it himself.”
Do you think she should confront her husband about this or wait until he finds out?
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