Earlier this summer, a 20-year-old girl found herself going out and doing more things, and she wound up meeting a 24-year-old guy who works as a bartender at a bar near her.
She was pretty flirtatious with him from the get-go, and he flirted back with her. She did ask if she could have this guy’s number, but then he admitted to her that he already is in a relationship and has a girlfriend.
Instead of getting his number, they swapped information about social media and they both began following one another on Instagram.
“Throughout the whole summer whenever I’d go to that bar I’d see him and we would still flirt and talk to each other a lot but a line was never crossed,” she explained.
“Fast forward a month (I hadn’t gone out in a while), I get a DM from him asking where I’ve been and making small talk.”
This guy asked if he could take her out, and he let her know that he had broken up with his girlfriend so clearly he was now single.
She did agree to go out on a date with him, and the following day they got together. Their date went pretty perfectly.
“We got along super well and he’s such a sweetheart,” she said. “We talked about his break up, and he tells me they only broke up TWO WEEKS AGO.”
“IDK seems a little early to be seeing someone, but maybe that’s just me. At this point, I knew I was the rebound, but I did end up going home with him. The next morning he was cuddling me and being all cute and saying all this cute s***.”
Victoria Chudinova – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purpose only, not the actual person
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They also chatted about getting together later on and making some plans to do other things. He offered to let her hang out at his house for the remainder of the day, and he also said it was ok for her to sleep over that night too.
She had already made plans for the day, so she did end up leaving. He kissed her on her way out before stating that he really did want to meet up with her soon.
2 days after hooking up with him, she reached out to him to ask if he would like to meet up with her when he got off of work, but he told her that he wanted to head home on the early side.
Although he did then suggest doing something that weekend, she wasn’t able to as she was going out of town. He never replied back; he just disliked that message she sent. All of that happened a week ago, and she has not heard a peep from this guy.
“I feel like the ball is in his court, so I don’t want to text,” she continued. “I’m not looking for anything right now, but I thought he would at least text me to hang out again and keep things casual given how much fun we had.”
“What is going on? Maybe I like him more than I let on.”
Why do you think this guy ghosted her?
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