She Sided With The Homewrecking Girl Who Nearly Broke Up Her Sister’s Marriage Instead Of Her Sister And She’s Asking The Internet If She Was Too Cruel
A woman has a sister named Annie who is in her 30s, and Annie recently developed one unhealthy obsession over a woman in her 20s named Jane.
Two years ago, Annie’s husband cheated on her with Jane, and ever since then, Annie has become obsessed with her.
Unfortunately, Annie’s husband has cheated on her with far more women than just Jane.
“Jane’s not the first or the last,” she explained. “She was one of the decent ones. Didn’t realize he was married, broke it off when she found out and sent the proof of his cheating to his wife.”
Although Jane sent Annie all of the evidence, Annie’s husband convinced her that Jane was just trying to destroy their marriage and Annie bought that.
“Anyway, Annie’s been stalking Jane’s socials,” she said. “Any time Jane posts about something bad happening, Annie calls me up to gloat.”
“Any time she posts about anything good that happens, Annie starts crying about how it’s not fair. In the last few months, Jane apparently got a high-paying new job, got engaged, and is pregnant.”
“Annie had a full-on meltdown over it.”
Annie has become so fixated on Jane, that Jane is the only topic she wants to chat about. Annie will call her up two times every week at a minimum to complain about Jane, and Annie also texts her several times a day about Jane.
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Annie isn’t looking for her sister to give her any kind of advice though and she has zero interest in leaving her cheating man; she just wants to complain non-stop about Jane.
She’s not the only one in their family who is growing sick and tired of Annie’s Jane obsession; they have a second sister who is also growing weary of this mess.
Their mom thinks that they all need to treat Annie gently since it’s difficult for her to know that her husband cheated, but that’s not something she really agrees with anymore.
She has done everything to try to support Annie through everything; she’s been sympathetic, she’s attempted to give her some “tough love” or try to get her to talk about something other than Jane.
She’s also tried to get Annie into counseling, but nothing that she tries helps at all or ends up working.
No matter what she does or what she says, Annie can’t stop talking about Jane every single day of her life and it’s been years now.
“I hit my boiling point this morning when she was going on about how Jane’s fiance would cheat because she’s too fat (she’s pregnant!) and her baby would be a bastard, etc.,” she said.
“Then she said “I don’t care because I won and she lost. She had him for a week and I have him for a lifetime.”
“For some reason that made me snap. I told Annie she “won” a slimy serial cheater who likes to creep on barely legal teens, who never supported her through illness or depression, never lifts a finger around the house, sulks about having to “babysit” his own kids, constantly makes mean jokes about her, and criticizes her appearance harshly even though he’s below average in looks.”
“I said something like, “Maybe you’re obsessed with Jane’s life because it’s yours is a massive dumpster fire.”
Well, that didn’t go over well at all with Annie.
Annie proceeded to go on social media and send her so many terrible messages. Then Annie involved her friends and some of their family members in her messages.
Everyone is accusing her of thinking cheating is acceptable while being mean. Although her second sister doesn’t have an issue with what she said to Annie, her sister thinks that she did it in a way that was much too cruel because Annie is the real “victim” in all of this.
Here’s what the internet had to say.
“Your sister is obsessed with someone who her husband cheated on her with, broke up with said husband once she found out about him still being married, and has since moved on. What your sister needs is professional help.”
“I’d message the girl he cheated with and tell her to block her sister and put her accounts on private. If her sister is “cut off” from her obsessive source, maybe she’ll look around and realize how miserable she is.”
“The irony is that her obsession with the other woman is probably creating a huge blind spot her hubby is most certainly taking advantage of.”
“Nope, he won’t leave as long as he can play her like this. There’s a type of cheater that really wants to have his cake and eat it too.”
“As long as she’s playing maid, cook, and doing the emotional labor of “happy family”, he’ll keep right on cheating.”
“For him, it’s not that the grass is greener, it’s the thrill of sneaking around and seduction. Everyone playing along with his crazy homewrecker bs just makes him feel all the more clever for “fooling” all of them.”
“I think you only told her the truth. There’s a reason she’s so obsessed – because hating these other women stops her hating herself. She needs therapy and to leave that man.”
“I think your sister wants to be Jane, by that I mean in her position. She’s 10 years younger and had the sense to get away from that sleaze when she saw him for what he was. A lot of misdirected anger going on here.”
You can read the rest of what the internet had to say here.
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