One man met his fiancée on a dating app, which really isn’t too outlandish in today’s world.
In fact, it’s somewhat normal these days and I’m sure you probably know someone who met their significant other on one.
Anyway, this man was dating his fiancée for 2 years, and he just asked her to marry him. Things sound like they’re going well, right? Wrong.
His fiancée told him that she wants him to get up during their wedding and give a speech. She doesn’t want it to be heartfelt though; she wants it to be scripted per her requirements.
The problem is, she wants him to lie at their wedding to all their guests about how they met one another in the first place.
“….She keeps telling me that during the wedding she wants me to give a “speech” talking about how I met her while she was working at a coffee shop and I was so attracted to her that it was love at first sight and I immediately asked her to be my girlfriend,” he explained.
“She says that this makes her look better and will make her look good to her friends if I say that she was so beautiful that I immediately asked her out.”
“To clarify she is saying I have to say that I asked her to be my GF right at the counter without even having any sort of conversation with her first.”
He thinks this is super creepy behavior to ask someone you don’t know or have never spoken with to be your girlfriend, and he’s concerned people will think he’s weird for telling this version of events (which they will just think is the truth).
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Oh, and his fiancée wants him to keep going with the lies.
She has more requirements for what he needs to be dishonest about in the speech.
“There are other lies that she wants me to go along with too,” he said.
“For example, I inherited a house from my grandparents but she is asking me to tell all her friends and family that I myself paid for and “bought her” the house because she is so special.”
It’s important to his fiancée that he lies about their house because she wants her friends to be jealous of her, and she already told this lie to all of her loved ones.
Meanwhile, his loved ones and friends are already aware of the fact that he inherited their house, so she fully expects him to tell them to pretend to believe what he’s saying in the speech and not say a word about that lie at the wedding.
He did say to his fiancée that he doesn’t want to go through with giving a speech that contains these lies, and since then, she’s accusing him of not caring about her feelings and instead prioritizing what other people will think over her.
Not only that, she threw it in his face that she needs to stop and think about if she really wants to spend her life with a man who will not take “her side.”
“She gave me an ultimatum that we won’t get married if I don’t agree and hasn’t talked to me for days,” he concluded. Ouch.
How would you deal with this?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.