A 22-year-old woman has a 31-year-old sister named Mia, who got divorced not that long ago. After Mia’s divorce, she agreed to let her sister come live with her and her fiancé for a bit.
Mia has always dressed very modestly, but as soon as Mia moved in, she noticed a concerning change with her older sister.
Mia will get dressed in what she normally wears, but when her fiancé is home, Mia will immediately change into clothing that is pretty revealing.
It’s painfully obvious what Mia is doing, and it’s been going on since she got to their apartment. Mia’s behavior is something her fiancé has now picked up on, and he’s starting to feel uneasy.
“My fiancé started noticing it as well and it makes him uncomfortable, he told me on many different occasions that Mia will do stuff like drop something on purpose and pick it up backside facing my fiancé or eat a banana very seductively while looking my fiancé in the eyes,” she said.
“I thought he was joking at first but I witnessed it with my very own eyes, I mean I understand she’s going through a hard time after her divorce or what not but this is honestly ridiculous.”
Taking matters into her own hands, she decided to have a chat with Mia, pointing out how what she is doing is not only making her upset, but it’s making her fiancé upset too.
She then asked Mia to not change into revealing clothes around her fiancé. To make it crystal clear to her sister what needed to change, she then went into a list of other things she wanted Mia to quit doing.
Mia did not take the conversation well and accused her of being sexist. Mia then took things to social media and wrote up a whole Facebook post about what she had said to her.
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In the Facebook post, Mia called her insecure and said a bunch of other stuff that wasn’t so nice.
She did talk to her mom about the situation, and her mom feels that Mia is incredibly stressed out and that she should let it go and let her dress how she wants to.
She’s left feeling hurt that she has gone out of her way to help Mia out so much, and here her sister is being rude and indecent.
Here’s what the internet had to say.
“She is being incredibly disrespectful of you and your husband, and it’s frankly creepy and embarrassing for her. Your house, your rules.”
“You’ve told her her behavior makes you both uncomfortable and is inappropriate. She needs to stop or leave. Period.”
“Doesn’t matter how much “stress” she is under. Your mother can host her if she feels differently.”
“Explain to her that she’s right, that she can dress however she likes. But that your fiance isn’t interested in her, and that each and every time she makes one of these blatant attempts at being seductive around him, the discomfort you both feel isn’t jealousy (from you) or attraction (from him) but pity (from both of you) because he isn’t remotely attracted to her, and her desperation is incredibly unflattering and pitiful.”
“You love her, she’s your sister, and you just really want to see her have more self-respect than to act like a thirst-trap around her own utterly disinterested brother-in-law, because she’s so much better than that, and it’s so heartbreaking to see. Maybe that will finally get through to her.”
“Kick her out. Kick her out NOW. I don’t give a damn about the dumpster fire that’ll start online. No one should be sexually harassed in their own home.”
“That’s the real sexist part about this. If it was a woman being sexually harassed by her fiancé’s brother this would be seen as totally different.”
“My 10 years older sister-in-law (married to my husband’s brother, has admitted she’s jealous of us) openly trots around in a bikini when my husband and I are at their house sometimes.”
“It’s just sad and makes him super uncomfortable because it’s so obvious she’s trying to flaunt something he doesn’t want to see. She’ll do yard work in a bikini (no shorts or anything) in the front yard for no reason, but only when he’s there.”
“Sis needs to find a new place to live. I’ve seen this type of woman in action before, she is a danger to your relationship. Sis can take her bananas and short shorts elsewhere.”
You can read the rest of what the internet had to say to her here.