Martha Stewart’s Not Eating Turkey This Year, But Here’s Her Recipe For The Perfect Turkey
Martha Stewart is one of America’s most beloved chefs, yet she’s not planning to chow down on Turkey this Thanksgiving. In fact, she’s not even going to be in the country for the upcoming holiday!
She has her own livestock at her property in Bedford, New York, and her farm in Maine. Nonetheless, Martha will be going the vegetarian route this year.
“Although I raise my own turkeys, they have been pardoned this year,” she said during a recent appearance on Today.
Martha detailed how she has a lot of vegetarians in her family, so her recipe for Brioche Stuffing-Filled Roasted Pumpkin, which she shared in the Today segment, satisfies everyone.
Instead of celebrating Thanksgiving in the States, she will be going to Rome with her grandchildren as well. She even put together a packed itinerary for her family to see a bunch of sites.
“We have such an itinerary. My grandchildren will get mad at me. They think they’re going on vacation for five days, but in fact, we are going to see everything. I’ve planned quite a trip,” Martha explained.
But while she may be skipping turkey this year, most Americans aren’t. Thankfully, Martha has already shared her recipe for the Perfect Roast Turkey in the past.
To try out Martha’s technique for yourself, which involves using a cheesecloth to keep the bird moist, check out the recipe below.
First, Start With The Brine
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To make Martha’s turkey brine, you will need a large five-gallon brining container, like a stockpot or tub, a large brining or oven-roasting bag, and a refrigerator. You can also use a cooler with ice in a pinch.
As for ingredients, the brine will call for seven quarts of water, one bottle of dry riesling, two thinly sliced medium onions, and plenty of seasonings. These include:
- 1 and 1/2 cups coarse salt
- 2 tablespoons of whole coriander seeds
- 2 tablespoons of whole black peppercorns
- 1 tablespoon of dried juniper berries
- 1 tablespoon of fennel seeds
- 1 teaspoon of black or brown mustard seeds
- 6 bay leaves
- 6 crushed cloves of garlic
- 1 bunch of fresh thyme
You should make your brine one day before you plan to roast your turkey. Begin by bringing one quart of water, as well as the salt, bay leaves, and spices, to a simmer. Be sure to stir until all the salt has dissolved, and then allow it to cool for five minutes.
Next, grab your brining or oven-roasting bag and use it to line your chosen brining container. This step will save you cleanup later on!
Once the container is lined and you’ve added your turkey, add the salt mixture, the remaining six quarts of water, and the rest of your ingredients.
Finally, tie the bag shut and stick it in the refrigerator for 24 hours. Throughout this time, you should flip the turkey one time. And if your bird isn’t fully submerged in the brine, you can use a plate to weigh it down.
Martha Stewart’s Perfect Roast Turkey
Now, before you’re ready to roast your turkey, you should remove it from the brine and pat it dry. Don’t forget the inside, too!
Then, you can move on to Martha’s Perfect Roast Turkey recipe, which uses the cheesecloth method. Cheesecloth is extremely porous and absorbent, which means it will help retain moisture and keep the basting liquid in close contact with your turkey.
For Martha’s recipe, the cheesecloth is soaked in a butter and wine mixture. What’s more tasty than that?
Cheesecloth helps protect the turkey’s skin from direct oven heat, too, so it won’t brown quicker than the meat cooks. And since it allows for evaporation and air circulation, your turkey will truly roast instead of steam, unlike with foil.
This recipe calls for three sticks of unsalted butter that are melted, as well as four tablespoons of unsalted butter at room temperature. Additionally, you will need:
- One 750-ml bottle of dry white wine
- 1 1/2 teaspoons of salt
- 1 1/2 teaspoons of freshly ground black pepper
To get started, allow your turkey to rest for two hours at room temperature. This will help your bird warm up and evenly cook in the oven later.
Preheat your oven to 450°F and ensure your oven rack is at the lowest level. As your oven heats, you can combine the melted butter and white wine in a mixing bowl.
Next, grab a large piece of cheesecloth and fold it into quarters. You should cut it into a 17-inch square that has four layers.
Once it’s cut, you can submerge the cheesecloth in your butter and white wine mixture to let it soak.
As it’s soaking, put your turkey on a roasting rack in a heavy metal roasting pan breast side up. You should fold the wing tips under the bird, and if you choose to stuff your turkey, now is the time!
When finished, use kitchen string to loosely tie the turkey legs together. You can also use toothpicks to fold and secure the turkey’s neck flap under.
Now, rub the softened butter on top of your turkey and sprinkle the salt and pepper on top. Upon completion, you should remove the cheesecloth from the butter and white wine mixture.
You can squeeze it a bit, but the goal is to leave it quite damp. Then, spread the cheesecloth evenly on top of the turkey and about halfway down the sides of the bird.
With your cheesecloth properly positioned, it’s time to begin the roasting process! Stick your turkey in the oven legs first and let it cook for 30 minutes. After the first half-hour, baste the cheesecloth and the other exposed parts of the turkey with the butter and wine mixture.
Following basting, you can lower your oven temperature to 350°F and roast the turkey for two and a half more hours. Remember to baste it every 30 minutes!
Lastly, after the third hour of cooking, you can remove and discard the cheesecloth. At that point, rotate your roasting pan and baste the turkey using the pan juices. And if you don’t have enough pan juices, you can keep using the butter and wine.
Allow the turkey to cook for one more hour, continuing to baste it after 30 minutes.
As you hit the four-hour mark, you can use an instant-read thermometer to check the temperature of the thickest part of the thigh, which should be 180°F. If the legs aren’t done yet, baste the turkey again and return it to the oven for another 20 to 30 minutes.
When your bird is fully cooked, you can transfer it to a serving platter and let it rest for around 30 minutes. Some people, like Martha, use this time to make gravy!
All you have to do is add one cup of either dry red wine, dry white wine, or water to the same pan you roasted your turkey in. Grab a wooden spoon and continue scraping the pan as you boil the mixture, making sure to get all the crispy bits off the bottom of the pan.
Once it’s boiling, add giblet stock to the pan and return it to a boil. It will need to cook for about 10 minutes or until the liquid has been reduced by half.
The final step is to add any pan juices and continue cooking the gravy for 10 more minutes over medium-high heat. You can season it to your liking, strain it into a gravy boat, and serve it alongside your moist turkey!
She’s Worried Her Husband Will Divorce Her Over Her Daughter Lying To Make Him Look Like A Creep
This woman and her husband got married a bit more than five years ago, and her husband has a decent relationship with her 19-year-old daughter.
Her husband hasn’t stepped into a father role for her daughter, but he consistently helps her out and offers up advice. Her husband has never acted in a strange or inappropriate way when it comes to her daughter.
Last Thursday, she and her husband were in their living room watching a movie together, but they stopped it so her husband could get up to go to the bathroom.
The door to the bathroom was closed, and she could hear her husband knocking twice on the door to see if it was occupied.
“Literally, 3 knocks each time on the door a couple of seconds apart,” she explained. “It was loud enough for me to hear him knocking from the living room. The next moment, I heard screaming.”
“I rushed to the bathroom and saw my daughter completely naked, covering herself and yelling at my husband to get out. I didn’t see everything that happened, but what I saw after I heard yelling was my husband literally fell over his own feet and [was] struggling to get the bathroom door closed.”
“I asked my husband what happened, and he said he knocked; nobody answered, so he went in, and my daughter was naked in front of the mirror, and he tried to get out.”
She asked her daughter for her version of the events, and her daughter said her husband just barged into the bathroom.
She pointed out that her husband had knocked, but then her daughter stated she had headphones in and was listening to music, so she didn’t hear the knocking.
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She got everyone to calm down, and her husband said sorry, as he really thought nobody was in the bathroom. Her daughter hugged her husband while apologizing for screaming at him.
It was an honest mistake, and everyone can move on, right? Wrong. Her daughter dragged other members of their family into this mess, and now they’re all accusing their husband of being a creep.
Her sister called her up, yelling at her for allowing her husband to still live in their home after the bathroom incident.
She had no clue what her sister was talking about, but her sister said her daughter had made up all these lies about her husband.
Her daughter completely didn’t say she was listening to music and couldn’t hear her husband knocking.
Instead, her daughter went around telling everyone who would listen that she told her husband verbally not to come in when he knocked, yet he still walked in on her because he wanted to see her without clothes on.
Now, she has cameras installed in the hallway of her home, and the video footage proves her husband knocked before walking into the bathroom (the cameras don’t have sound, though).
She confronted her daughter, who said she never made her husband out to be a creep. She got angry and brought up the conversation she had with her sister.
Her daughter was quiet for a moment, then said she told her niece about the bathroom incident, and her niece must have said something.
She asked her daughter why she lied and made her husband look awful when he did nothing inappropriate.
“She just started to cry and say sorry. She was just talking and making up scenarios with her niece,” she added.
“The whole day yesterday, I got calls and texts from my family members as the story spread. The wrong story is spreading and my husband is looking like a creep to everyone. I sat my daughter down again and had her read some of the things being said about my husband, and told her she has to fix this because her lying is what caused this.”
“She refused, saying she didn’t spread this, and she only told her niece and doesn’t want to say anything to anyone because they will think bad about her; she said they know my husband, and this will just blow over.”
Her husband then entered their living room with his belongings packed up. He is currently staying with his mom and dad, as he doesn’t want to be involved in such a warped situation.
Her daughter had a breakdown and profusely apologized, promising to fix the mess she made, but her husband walked out of the house and hasn’t been back.
Since then, her husband has requested space, and her daughter is acting inconsolably. As for her, she’s concerned her husband’s going to file for divorce.
“I told her if I get divorced because of her lies, she will be moving out of my house,” she continued.
“I told her she better fix what she did and tell everyone what really happened because I will not be losing a man [who] loves and actually cares for me like my husband does over lies.”
“She asked me to help her, and I told her no, she isn’t a child anymore, and her lies for attention did this; this is on her. I already tried, and I’m now also being accused of taking my husband’s side and not providing a safe space for my daughter.”
What advice do you have for her?
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Algae That Can Cause Memory Loss Has Been Spotted In Seafood
More than four million tons of seafood are fished from the tropical waters between the Philippines archipelago and delegated to global markets, making the country the 11th largest producer of seafood in the world.
However, scientists have recently discovered two species of microscopic marine algae that produce toxins within shellfish farmed in the region.
The finding has raised concerns for the coastal communities who depend on the industry to make a living.
“It is important to be aware of the toxic potential of these diatoms and to monitor them accordingly, but such efforts must begin by establishing their presence in our waters,” wrote the study authors.
Diatoms are single-celled algae that generate crystalline glass “shells” from hydrated silicon dioxide. These tiny living jewels are part of phytoplankton, which produces up to half of the Earth’s oxygen.
There are millions of diatom species in existence, but only 28 in the genus Pseudo-nitzschia are known to emit a harmful neurotoxin called domoic acid.
Shellfish, sardines, and anchovies can contain domoic acid because their diets are largely made up of marine algae like diatoms.
It is very rare for seafood affected by this toxin to reach our dinner tables. But since human activity has been causing marine algal blooms to become more frequent, the risk of seafood accumulating concerning levels of domoic acid has increased.
If seafood contaminated with too much domoic acid is eaten, it can lead to some serious side effects, from vomiting and diarrhea to amnesia and death.
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On Canada’s Prince Edward Island, three people died, and at least 100 people were hospitalized in 1987 after an outbreak of amnesic shellfish poisoning.
The shellfish was laced with domoic acid, which caused the permanent loss of short-term memory. The catastrophe was traced back to blue mussels.
Ever since then, many seafood industries have been closely monitoring Pseudo-nitzschia blooms, so cases of contamination are uncommon in many countries.
But recent research has shown that more focus needs to be put toward the Philippines after finding the amnesia-causing diatoms in shellfish from marine farms off the island of Luzon.
More than half of the Philippines’ population resides in Luzon, and shellfish is a major part of many residents’ diets.
Before the new study, there were only two published surveys of the Pseudo-nitzschia genus in the Philippines.
The first recorded local Pseudo-nitzschia bloom was likely from the island of Cebu. In May 2023, another bloom was detected near Pangasinan, Luzon Island.
The research team collected samples of seawater from Sotto’s Tahong Farm in Bacoor Bay and Pagbilao Bay.
They isolated 15 strains of Pseudo-nitzschia from the seawater and analyzed them in the lab. They found two species in the samples that both produced domoic acid.
Hopefully, the discovery will help seafood producers look out for future harmful algal blooms so they can reduce outbreaks of shellfish amnesic poisoning.
The study was published in Diatom Research.
A Dolphin In The Baltic Sea Was Caught Talking To Himself, Sparking Curiosity Among Researchers
A lone dolphin in the Baltic Sea has been recorded talking to himself, sparking curiosity among researchers.
They speculate that he might be expressing loneliness, potentially calling out in hopes of finding some friends.
Bottlenose dolphins (Tursiops truncatus) are known to be social animals that live in pods. But in September 2019, a single dolphin started hanging around the Svendborgsund channel, which is located south of Funen Island, Denmark, an area that is outside of the usual range of the species.
Locals know the dolphin as Delle. No other dolphins were seen nearby. Researchers deployed underwater recording devices to observe how the solitary dolphin’s presence affected porpoises near the harbor. They were shocked when they heard how noisy Delle was.
“Out of curiosity, I decided to add a recorder that captures actual sounds,” said Olga Filatova, the lead author of the study and a cetacean biologist at the University of Southern Denmark.
“I thought we might pick up a few distant whistles or something along those lines. I certainly didn’t anticipate recording thousands of different sounds.”
Over the course of 69 days between December 8, 2022, and February 14, 2023, the researchers detected a total of 10,833 sounds.
Many of them were related to communication and included 2,291 whistles, 2,288 burst-pulses, 5,487 low-frequency tonal sounds, and 767 percussive sounds.
Burst-pulses are a series of rapid-fire clicks sometimes associated with aggression. Among these noises, the dolphin also produced three distinctive whistles.
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“Bottlenose dolphins have what are known as signature whistles, believed to be unique to each individual, much like a name,” said Filatova.
“If we hadn’t known that Delle was alone, we might have concluded that a group of at least three dolphins was engaged in various social interactions.”
Such sounds have traditionally been linked to communication, so there should’ve been at least two dolphins present in the area. However, Delle was completely alone.
Initially, the researchers thought the dolphin might’ve been trying to speak with a local paddleboarder, but the sounds were recorded at night, so no humans were in the water at that time.
Other experts are not totally surprised by the fact that an individual dolphin was still making sounds all by himself.
Dolphins are vocal creatures and rely on sound for activities like hunting and sensing their environment. They also use sound to communicate across long distances.
Delle may have been talking to himself, or he was producing sounds that were triggered by a specific emotion.
Another theory posits that he was calling out to attract other dolphins nearby, although this seems unlikely.
He had already lived in the area for three years, so he would know by now that no other dolphins were around.
Researchers don’t usually record solitary dolphins because no one expects them to produce any meaningful sounds, but this study has proven them wrong. There is still a lot to learn about dolphin communications to understand more about their behavior.
The study was published in the journal Bioacoustics.
The Rise Of Ancient Greek Culture Began A Century Earlier Than We Thought
Of all the ancient cultures and civilizations that scholars know most about, ancient Greece takes the cake. However, there are no surviving historical records between 1200 and 760 B.C.
This period has been referred to as a “dark age” due to the lack of written records following the societal and political collapse of much of the Mediterranean.
The Greek iron ages took place within this period. But since no documents are available, historians have only been able to work with a timeline that uses pottery styles from Athens as its basis.
It is believed that the iron ages started in 1025 and ended in 700 B.C. The Greek Renaissance occurred from 760 B.C. to 700 B.C., emerging in the last period of the iron ages.
During this era, the civilization experienced rapid economic and population growth. It saw the establishment of alphabetic writing, Greek city-states, and Greek colonies abroad. These major developments happened in just 60 years, making the period a rather extraordinary one.
But new research from Assiros and Sindos in northern Greece and Zagora on the island of Andros suggests that this timeline of the Greek iron age is wrong.
After studying pottery, researchers determined that the Greek dark ages were much shorter and the Greek Renaissance lasted much longer than previously thought.
The findings show that Greek society was quicker to recover from the societal collapse than what was assumed in the past.
In 2013, a team of archaeologists exploring the ancient town of Eleon, discovered a vessel in a shrine dating to the last half of the 12th century B.C.
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The vessel was crushed into pieces on the floor of the shrine. It featured concentric circles around a central axis on its surface.
The concentric circles are a hallmark of the protogeometric pottery style, which the researchers believe emerged in Athens during the latter half of the 11th century B.C.
After carefully analyzing these pottery pieces, along with other Greek pottery fragments found at sites that were destroyed during wars, they established dates for the Greek iron ages.
Generally, the protogeometric pottery period was believed to be from 1025 to 900 B.C., the early geometric was from 900 to 850 B.C., the middle geometric was 850 to 750 B.C., and the late geometric, which is equivalent to the Greek Renaissance, was 760 to 700 B.C.
But the team challenged this timeline and argued that the protogeometric style originated during the 12th century B.C. in northern Greece instead.
They examined thin sections of the pottery pieces under a microscope and conducted chemical analyses on the vase to show that it was imported from the lower Axios Valley. The Eleon vessel was also found among Mycenaean pottery dating to the 12th century B.C.
Traditionally, Mycenaean pottery was believed to be produced from the 16th to 11th century B.C. and was followed by the protogeometric style. However, the discovery at Eleon suggested that the two styles actually co-existed for 100 years.
So, the dark ages of Greece would be much shorter and the new start to the iron ages and the Greek Renaissance would be placed 100 years earlier than previously thought.
For instance, the protogeometric period would begin around 1,150 B.C. and end around 1,105 B.C. instead. The Greek Renaissance would’ve started in 870 B.C. and ended in 700 B.C., spanning almost 200 years and becoming much longer.
He Called Out A Teacher For Failing To Help Their Struggling Student, And Now The School District Is Unhappy With Him
This 30-year-old man has a job as a substitute teacher, and over the last few weeks, he has filled in for a teacher who encountered a family emergency.
He took over this teacher’s fourth-grade class, composed of 9 to 10-year-olds. One girl in the class named Lydia caught his attention, as it appeared to him that she was treated as a lost cause.
Everyone told him Lydia was just a terrible child. He picked up on her behavior problems, but he thought she was being mislabeled in a way that was not fair to her.
On the first day that he took over this class, he was told “carpet time” was how the students began their morning.
All the students would sit reading on the carpet for this chunk of time. There was a huge carpet on the floor of the classroom with a tinier rug in the middle of it.
“Lydia wanted to sit on the rug instead of the carpet, and when she didn’t get her way, she threw herself on the floor, flailing and crying,” he explained.
“I picked her up, placed her in a chair, and told her, “You’re going to stay here until you stop.” When she got up, I physically placed her back in the chair.”
“This repeated multiple times over the first few days—probably around 30 times in the first three days. Over time, though, her tantrums became less frequent because she realized that throwing a fit wouldn’t change the outcome.”
But on his 8th day of class, Lydia melted down and started yelling about how she didn’t want to sit in the chair because it was ugly.
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He told Lydia she didn’t have a choice and seated her there. Lydia pinched him so hard it made him bleed, but he remained calm.
He cleaned himself off, and Lydia stopped blowing up after that day.
As he spent more time with Lydia, it dawned on him that she couldn’t actually read. While Lydia could cite the letters in the alphabet and write out her name, that was the extent of her literacy.
Lydia pitched a fit to get out of doing work since she wasn’t able to convey to him that she was struggling.
After he got to the bottom of Lydia’s outbursts, he was able to redirect her energy and help her gain some confidence in the classroom.
When he let the class and the normal teacher took over once more, Lydia’s behavior was improved, but she still required some help.
The teacher remarked that people told her Lydia was on her best behavior for him, and she wanted to know his secret. Right after the teacher returned, Lydia resorted to her tantrums.
“I explained the chair method and shared that Lydia likely acted out because she couldn’t read,” he said.
“The teacher responded with this email: “If we just give her what she wants, the behavior stops immediately. I think we would have noticed if she didn’t know how to read. It’s very hard dealing with her constantly, and making her sit on a chair doesn’t accomplish anything. It just makes her feel alone and left out.”
“I replied: “You have two options. You can either fail her, as you’re doing now and let her grow up unable to read. This will limit her chances of getting a job, teach her that her behavior is acceptable, and possibly lead her to end up homeless, in prison, or even dead because illiteracy will severely impact her life. Or you can discipline her, teach her to read, and help her avoid these outcomes.”
The teacher never bothered replying to him, but the school district complained to him about how he spoke to her.
He’s left wondering if it was wrong to call this teacher out for failing Lydia.
What do you think?
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His Fiancée Thinks They Should Both Sleep With Someone Else Before Their Wedding In A Couple Weeks
Four years ago, this 28-year-old man started dating his 29-year-old fiancée, and he’s never had a reason to believe something is wrong in their relationship.
Their wedding is happening in just a couple of weeks, but last night, over dinner, his fiancée said they should both sleep with someone else before getting married.
“This stupid idea of hers completely blindsided me,” he explained. “I could tell that she had been thinking about it for some time and just waiting for the perfect moment to bring it up.”
“She said it would be healthy for our relationship, and our marriage would [be] off to a better start because of it.”
“She also claimed it would help get everything out of our systems. In the 4 years we’ve been together, I’ve never thought about being with someone else, but it just sucks to know she doesn’t feel the same way.”
When his fiancée noticed that he was not thrilled about the hall pass concept, she started to backtrack.
He basically stopped speaking to her when that conversation was over and went to sleep. Earlier this morning, his fiancée has been saying sorry like crazy, but it’s too late for that.
She can’t take back her words, and he’s upset. While he loves his fiancée with all of his heart, he feels betrayed.
“I’m not sure if she has a guy in mind or just wants a one-night stand,” he added. “We’re getting married in December, just a few weeks away.”
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“[A] breakup seems like something that would not be fun to deal with. Outside of the emotional pain, we’ve been living together for 2 years.”
“We have a whole wedding planned with people coming for us. I’d like to try and work this out, and maybe I’m just overreacting. My friends think I need to cut my losses and move on.”
If he does decide to end his engagement, he needs to hurry up and do this prior to spending Thanksgiving with his fiancée’s family.
Do you think he should call it off?
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She Left Her Best Friend’s Wedding Early After She Was Seated With Complete Strangers And Excluded From Their Mutual Friend Group
This 25-year-old woman and her best friend, who’s 26, have been close ever since they were in high school.
So, after her friend got engaged and she was invited to the wedding, she was both thrilled and honored to attend.
Now, she wasn’t included in her friend’s bridal party, but her friend promised that she’d have a good seat at the reception.
“And I thought I’d be with our mutual friends, or at least people I knew,” she recalled.
Yet, when she arrived at her friend’s nuptials, she realized she was wrong. She was actually seated at a table filled with complete strangers.
Some were distant relatives of her friend’s fiancé, and others were people she’d never met before in her entire life.
At the same time, the rest of their mutual friends were all sitting together at another table, laughing and having a wonderful time.
As you can probably imagine, she felt pretty hurt and left out of the celebration.
“I get it’s my friend’s wedding, and she has to make decisions about seating, but I thought she’d at least place me with people I knew, especially since we’re so close,” she admitted.
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Instead, she was uncomfortable throughout the entire reception. She spent most of it feeling awkward and out of place, and eventually, she just opted to leave early. She wasn’t having a fun time, anyway.
Once her friend found out that she ditched the event early, though, they got into an argument. Her friend reached out via text and accused her of being rude by leaving like that.
“And that I should have been more understanding because it was her special day,” she added.
She tried to tell her friend how sitting with strangers made her feel excluded. Regardless, her friend didn’t care.
Her friend thought she was making the wedding all about herself and should’ve stayed out of support, no matter what.
With their friendship on the rocks over this, she’s wondering if getting upset and heading out early was justified or not.
Why do you think she was placed separately from their friends in the first place? Did she have a right to feel hurt?
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How To Keep Your Ceramic And Terracotta Pots Safe For The Winter
Throughout the spring, summer, and even fall, countless people opt to display their gorgeous blooms in garden pots that line their porches or patios.
But now that the cooler months are upon us, it’s time to winterize these containers so they live to see another beautiful season.
Winter-proofing is an often forgotten-about task, yet it’s crucial to prevent your containers from cracking. Whether you have terracotta, plastic, thin-walled ceramic, or unsealed wood pots, they can all crack or even break after being exposed to the freezing and thawing patterns of winter.
Terracotta and ceramic pots are most likely to crack due to their porous nature. However, you can keep them safe and protected with only a few easy steps.
First, Clean Your Garden Pots Prior To Storing
To mitigate pests and diseases from festering in your containers during the cold months, be sure to clean them.
You should start by removing all the soil, and if it’s healthy, add it to some garden beds or your compost pile. Then, use a rag or soft brush to scrub the containers with warm, soapy water. Once you’re finished, rinse and repeat until all the dirt is gone.
And if you know that pests, fungus, or bacteria may be a problem, you can wash your pots with a bleach solution. Just mix one part bleach with nine parts water.
Finally, thoroughly dry your containers before you move on to storing them.
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Where To Store Your Garden Pots
Terracotta and concrete containers can be stored in an area that’s dry and sheltered, like your garage, basement, or enclosed porch. It’s better if your chosen area’s temperatures don’t dip below freezing, so your pots aren’t at risk of cracking.
As for ceramic pots, if they’re properly glazed, they can be left outside without any coverings. Still, keep in mind that storing them inside or under a protective covering will help them stay in tip-top shape for longer.
Also, if you’re storing multiple pots, never stack heavy containers inside each other. Over time, they may settle, get stuck, or even break. Only lighter pots should be stored inside heavier ones, and foam or cardboard dividers can be placed in between to mitigate scratches or cracks.
Plastic pots, on the other hand, tend to be more budget-friendly. Even so, they should still be stored indoors to ensure ultimate longevity.
Start by assessing your plastic pots and determine whether any are already damaged. If so, you can recycle them and buy replacements in the spring. Any plastic pots that are still going strong can be stored upside down in your shed, greenhouse, garage, or basement.
Conversely, if you want to leave them outside, just cover them with a tarp to shield them from snow, rain, and direct sunlight.
But What About Heavy Pots?
You may have some larger gardening containers outside that are too large or heavy to be moved inside. That’s okay, and there are still measures you can take to safeguard them from the winter elements.
You could wrap the container with bubble wrap, burlap, or old blankets. This will insulate both the pot and the plant’s roots amidst freezing temperatures.
And if you have a smaller pot, you can build a wooden box to shelter it from ice and snow. If you choose to go this route, be mindful of drainage since you don’t want your pot to sit in any water that ultimately freezes and causes the base to crack.
This Rare Psychological Disorder Causes You To Fake Symptoms To Appear Ill, Injured, Or Impaired
Imagine faking an illness so well that even doctors are convinced. That is the essence of factitious disorder, which is also known as Munchausen syndrome. It’s all about fabricating symptoms or even tampering with medical tests to appear ill, injured, or impaired.
People with factitious disorder are not trying to invent medical problems for money or other perks, like getting out of work or winning a lawsuit. The gain is believed to be for primarily psychological reasons.
It is classified as a mental illness. People with this puzzling and complex condition are aware that they are causing their own symptoms or sicknesses, but they may not understand why they are behaving in this way or recognize that they have a problem.
Factitious disorder is hard to identify and difficult to treat. People with the disorder will go to great lengths to hide their deception and to receive care and attention.
Symptoms
The signs and symptoms of factitious disorder may include vague/inconsistent symptoms, conditions that worsen for no apparent reason, conditions that don’t respond to standard treatments, seeking treatments from several doctors or hospitals, and an eagerness to undergo testing and surgical operations.
In addition, they may argue with medical staff, be reluctant to let doctors talk to family/friends and have evidence of surgical scars on their bodies.
Types of Factitious Disorder
There are two types of factitious disorder. One of them is factitious disorder imposed on the self. It involves making up medical histories, exaggerating existing symptoms, faking symptoms altogether, tampering with medical tests, and inflicting self-harm.
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They might inject themselves with bacteria, feces, gasoline, or milk to make themselves sick. They could injure, cut, or burn themselves. Or they may even take certain medications to imitate diseases.
The second type of factitious disorder is when the illness is imposed on others. People with this kind of factitious disorder will invent symptoms of sickness in others under their care, whether it’s children, older adults, disabled people, or pets.
They will harm their dependents on purpose in order to receive attention. It occurs most often in mothers. The diagnosis is not given to the victim but to the perpetrator.
Risk Factors
The exact cause of factitious disorder is unknown, but several risk factors can contribute to its development. Some theories suggest that a history of childhood trauma, such as neglect and emotional/physical abuse, can lead to factitious disorder.
Other factors include having a serious illness as a child, a poor sense of identity, low self-esteem, depression, personality disorders, receiving attention during past times of sickness, and experiencing the loss of a loved one due to death, illness, or abandonment.
Many patients who have been diagnosed with this condition have also had professional experience in the field of healthcare. The disorder is considered to be rare, but it is unclear how many people suffer from it in the United States.
Some use fake names to avoid detection, some visit multiple doctors/hospitals, and others are never identified. It is estimated that about one percent of those admitted to hospitals have factitious disorder, but the statistic is probably lower than what’s been reported.
How Diamond Dust Could Hold the Key To Cooling Our Planet
Dropping diamond dust from an airplane and letting it scatter throughout the atmosphere could help cool the planet, according to newfound evidence.
A team of researchers from several institutions calculated which materials would be the most effective at cooling the planet via a stratospheric aerosol injection (SAI) method.
They used three-dimensional climate models to compare materials and found that a few hundred trillion dollars worth of diamond dust could work well.
Previously, research has shown that the warming of the Earth will worsen global weather patterns if temperatures continue on their current upward trend.
At this point, some experts argue that the only solution to this dire issue is to find a way to cool down the planet as quickly as possible. One idea has been to deploy millions of devices that extract carbon from the air.
However, if our planet is now past the point of return, removing carbon won’t help. Instead, it is necessary to inject aerosols into the atmosphere to reflect sunlight and heat back into space in order to cool down the Earth.
At first, sulfur dioxide gas was deemed the best candidate for the job. Since it is naturally spewed into the atmosphere by volcanoes, scientists have had plenty of opportunities to experiment with it.
So, they have a good idea of what would happen if humans started injecting it into the air themselves. Although the gas would likely counter the warming effects of excess greenhouse gases, it could also have undesired side effects.
Some of the consequences include damage to the ozone layer, disruption of weather patterns in the lower atmosphere, and a return of acid rain around the globe.
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The research team built a three-dimensional climate model to show the impacts of adding seven different aerosols to the atmosphere—two types of titanium dioxide, aluminum, calcite, silicon carbide, diamond, and sulfur dioxide.
They ranked the suitability of each one in terms of heat absorption, reflectivity, and reactivity. The software also predicted how the aerosols would settle to the ground and whether they would clump together in the atmosphere.
It demonstrated that diamond dust was the best option. The diamond particles would stay in the air for a reasonable amount of time, would not be likely to clump together, and reflect the most light and heat.
In addition, the particles are chemically inert, meaning that they probably won’t react to toxic substances and result in acid rain.
The model suggested that injecting five million tons of synthetic diamond dust into the atmosphere per year could cool the Earth by approximately 34.88 degrees Fahrenheit in 45 years.
But of course, it would come at a huge cost of around $200 trillion, which is about $600,000 per megaton of diamond dust.
The study was published in Geophysical Research Letters.
36 Years Ago, A Neighbor Found This Young Veterinary Student Stabbed In The Hall Of Her Apartment Building
Maria Caleel’s early life appeared perfect from the outside. She grew up in the Chicago suburbs with a plastic surgeon father and a former model mother on a five-acre estate.
Her affluent parents appeared in the local society pages, traveled to exotic locations, and enjoyed horses. Her father played polo; meanwhile, her mother participated in dressage events.
So, Maria fell in love with horses and started riding at just 6-years-old. She was known as a modest and amiable young woman, too, even though her family was wealthy.
“She got into horses at a very young age. Maria loved large animals, and she knew she wanted to be a vet,” her mother, Annette Caleel, recalled.
She went on to study pre-med at Brown University by age 16. Then, in 1987, she started studying at the University of Illinois College of Veterinary Medicine in Champaign-Urbana to fulfill her dream of becoming an equine veterinarian.
But while Maria was at the top of her class and excelling in Illinois, her life came to a screeching halt in March 1988 when she was murdered.
The Day Of Maria’s Murder
March 5 started off like any other day for 21-year-old Maria, who worked at her school’s veterinary clinic and cared for a premature foal. Then, at 10:00 p.m. that evening, she and some friends hung out in the Campus Town area.
They listened to music and grabbed pizza. Afterward, at about 1:30 a.m. on March 6, a friend brought Maria back to her third-floor apartment, which was located at 205 N. Lincoln in Urbana, just a few blocks north of campus.
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Maria lived with two roommates in her veterinary program, but both of them were away for the weekend, meaning she was home alone. And in the middle of the night, around 3:10 a.m., tragedy struck.
A scream and strange rumbling sounds were heard from Maria’s apartments by neighbors on the second floor. About 15 minutes of silence followed, and then odd noises returned. The neighbors supposedly attempted to contact the police, yet the line was busy.
They weren’t able to reach authorities until 3:28 a.m. Minutes later, a different neighbor on the third floor also dialed 911 at 3:30 a.m. after stumbling upon Maria, who was bleeding and crawling down the hallway.
Once the police arrived on the scene, Maria was only able to utter her name and one other curious statement: “I can’t believe he did this to me.” Her mother, Annette, claimed the responding officer had asked Maria who attacked her, and Maria stated that she didn’t want to talk about it.
She ultimately lost consciousness thereafter and was transported to Carle Hospital.
Maria went into surgery one hour later and died at 5:22 a.m. while on the operating table. The most puzzling part was her cause of death, which was determined to be shock from internal bleeding caused by one stab wound to her abdominal aorta.
Maria’s family believed doctors didn’t operate on her quickly enough to stop the internal bleeding and later sued the hospital for negligence. The hospital settled for $1 million.
At the same time as Maria’s surgery, investigators began analyzing her apartment for clues and came up short.
Each apartment had a bolt lock, and no signs of forced entry were found. According to one of Maria’s friends, she liked to keep the door locked as well.
The apartment reportedly appeared “pristine,” and Maria’s bed seemed to have been slept in. She was wearing pajamas when she was killed.
Nothing was missing from the apartment, either, and without much evidence, such as the murder weapon or witnesses, investigators had few leads to follow. DNA testing also wasn’t widely used back then.
Maria’s Case Puzzles The Police
Given the lack of suspects and a clear motive, the FBI’s Violent Criminal Apprehension Program (VICAP) was used. This program matched data from different crimes to build potential suspect profiles.
In 1988, The Chicago Sun-Times reported, “Agents in the FBI’s Springfield office said any VICAP profile of Caleel’s killer likely would be that of a young male, unemployed and a loner. Yet he would have to be persuasive enough to have talked Caleel into opening her door late at night, agents said.”
Authorities went on to conduct 200 interviews within the first month of their investigation, including all 76 students in Maria’s class, as well as her friends and family. Police looked into an ex-boyfriend from when Maria was in high school, as well as a classmate named Cathy Mance. Nothing came of these potential leads.
Maria’s death was particularly confounding since experts stated it was a “remote” possibility that someone would die from a single stab wound. On the contrary, most stabbing deaths are caused by multiple inflictions.
That’s why some theorize that Maria’s attacker might not have actually meant to kill her. Instead, they think it might’ve been an accident, especially because Maria did not identify the attacker.
This theory has not been confirmed, though, and Maria’s case has remained quite stagnant. Her family offered a $3,000 reward for information that rose to $50,000 by 1999.
A Potential Break In The Case
In 2001, Maria’s father convinced authorities to send her case to the Vidocq Society, which consisted of retired forensic professionals and law enforcement officers who worked to solve murders.
“Forensic psychologist Richard Walter, the group’s co-founder who is credited as one of the creators of modern criminal profiling, said he took a particular interest in the case. Of the 40 suspects in the police file, Walter said he eliminated all but one: a student who Walter opined resented the bright, beautiful Caleel,” the Chicago Tribune reported.
That same year, Det. Sgt. Dan Morgan, who was newly leading the investigation, also received a letter on his desk, typed anonymously. The correspondence implicated a new suspect who wasn’t part of the investigation.
This possible lead caused her case to be reopened, and evidence was retested using more advanced DNA methods. The efforts culminated in an unknown male genetic profile.
Police began trying to get DNA samples from potential suspects. Some voluntarily provided their DNA, while others were secretly obtained by authorities.
The Vidocq Society created a profile of Maria’s killer, and the analysis suggested they were someone who was angry with her and may have felt betrayed. They also might not have meant to kill her and were possibly waiting in her apartment with the intent to cause “great bodily harm.”
The profile further claimed that Maria’s murderer wouldn’t have agreed to cooperate with the police and would even threaten legal action if asked to cooperate with an investigation.
Sgt. Sylvia Griffet of the Urbana Police Department, who was assigned to Maria’s case in 1997, said that the profile “directed” the police investigation.
Still, Maria’s Case Goes Unsolved
In 2012 and 2015, evidence from Maria’s murder was resubmitted to the crime lab. Authorities hoped ever-advancing technology would help yield better results.
More recently, in 2016, two new officers were assigned to her case and found items with DNA that hadn’t been tested.
Over 36 years later, though, no one has been named a suspect in Maria’s case or charged with her murder.
“I just wish we had the answers to the puzzles that remain,” her mother, Annette, stated in 2002.
A Facebook page entitled “Remembering Maria Caleel” has been created to remember her and continue seeking justice.
10 Fragrant Houseplants That Will Have You Ditching Your Air Fresheners
Ditch Your Air Fresheners For These 10 Fragrant Houseplants
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Bringing the outdoors inside isn’t just about adding a touch of greenery to your living space. It’s also about infusing your home with natural fragrances that can lift your mood and transform your environment.
With these ten fragrant indoor plants, you can make your home smell like a lush garden– no air fresheners required.
1. Jasmine
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Jasmine is a plant that can turn any room into a fragrant paradise. With its delicate white or yellow star-shaped blooms, jasmine emits a sweet, rich fragrance, especially after dusk.
This plant prefers bright, indirect sunlight and well-drained soil. It’s also important to water jasmine only when the topsoil feels dry to the touch to avoid overwatering.
Plus, regular pruning will help maintain its bushy appearance and encourage more blooms.
2. Gardenia
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Gardenias are famous for their large, creamy white flowers and dark green, glossy leaves. Their fragrance is intensely sweet and can fill an entire room.
Thriving in moderate temperatures and high humidity, gardenias require consistent moisture in the soil without being waterlogged.
They also benefit from regular misting to maintain the humidity levels they love.
3. Lavender
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Lavender is sure to bring the serene beauty of the French countryside into your home.
Known for its silvery-green foliage and purple flower spikes, lavender emits a calming and soothing fragrance.
It needs a sunny spot and well-draining soil, as it’s susceptible to root rot in damp conditions. Watering should also be done sparingly and only when the soil is dry.
4. Scented Geraniums
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Scented geraniums offer a unique variety of fragrances, from citrusy to spicy, and their textured leaves add to their charm.
They prefer bright light and well-drained soil. Also, watering should be moderate, allowing the soil to dry out between waterings. This plant’s flowers are small but pretty, often overshadowed by the attractively patterned leaves.
5. Eucalyptus
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Eucalyptus plants will definitely bring a fresh, crisp aroma to your home. With their fast-growing habit and round, silver-green leaves, they make a striking indoor plant.
They thrive in full sun and require regular watering. Pruning is also essential to keep them at a manageable size and to encourage the growth of new, fragrant leaves.
6. Mint
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Mint is an incredibly easy-to-grow plant with a refreshingly sharp scent. It has sprawling green stems with bright, oval leaves. And mint plants prefer moist soil and partial sunlight, making them perfect for indoor gardens.
However, they tend to spread rapidly. So, it’s advisable to plant them in containers to control their growth.
7. Citrus Trees
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Indoor citrus trees, like dwarf lemons or oranges, not only produce fragrant flowers but also bear fruit!
These trees require bright sunlight and consistent watering to thrive. But their glossy green leaves and the fragrance of blossoms make them a delightful addition to any room that’s totally worth the extra work.
8. Stephanotis
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Stephanotis, also known as Madagascar jasmine, features waxy, tubular flowers that exude a sweet, intense fragrance.
These blooms enjoy bright, indirect light and need water when the soil feels dry to the touch. Its vining nature also makes it ideal for hanging baskets or trellises.
9. Rosemary
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Rosemary is a wonderful aromatic herb with needle-like leaves and woody stems. It produces a pine-like fragrance and small, pale blue flowers.
This herb loves full sun and well-drained soil, and it should be watered only when the soil is dry. And, of course, rosemary is not only great for adding fragrance but also for cooking.
10. Sweet Bay
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Last but not least, Sweet Bay, or bay laurel, is known for its noble fragrance and glossy, dark green leaves.
This plant needs full sun to partial shade and well-drained soil. Watering should also only be done when the top inch of the soil feels dry.
Sweet bay is a popular culinary herb, too, used in a variety of dishes for its subtle flavor.
Scotland’s Last Plague Shows There Was A Lot Of Compassion For The Dead, Even Though It Put The Living At Risk
The Black Death, which was caused by the bacterial agent Yersinia pestis, struck Europe in the mid-14th century. Scotland’s final brush with the bubonic plague occurred from 1644 to 1649.
Researchers from the University of Aberdeen in Scotland have confirmed for the first time that the bacteria responsible for the bubonic plague was present as far as north as Aberdeen during the late 1640s. It was a time when the Scottish population was ravaged by both civil war and disease.
They also discovered surprising acts of care for the dead, even in the face of chaos. The team mapped the plague’s spread in Scotland over the six-year-long epidemic and examined remains excavated from a site in 1987 in York Place, Aberdeen.
The site contained a series of plague pits that were created during the 1647 to 1648 outbreak. The team identified ancient DNA of Yersinia pestis in human remains from one of the plague pits.
“This final Scottish outbreak was thought to have started as a result of infected Scottish soldiers returning from the siege of Newcastle in October 1644,” said Marc Oxenham, the lead author of the study and a professor at the university.
“Initially, in the borders, it spread north over the following years through Central Scotland, Perthshire, and Angus.”
According to an entry in the Council Register of the Burgh, Aberdeen was preparing for the plague’s return by April 1647. The last outbreak in the city happened almost 100 years prior, in 1545.
By this time, Scottish cities and towns were highly experienced in combating the plague. Still, the effects were devastating.
In many regions, populations were facing economic hardship and war, along with the complications of a terrible disease.
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For example, in Brechin, about 600 people, which was half the town’s population, died within a few months of 1647.
The researchers wanted to look into how people responded to the plague and whether there was a general fear of victims of the plague during this last epidemic.
They analyzed the bones and teeth of skeletons recovered from plague pits, confirming that the individuals died between 1647 and 1648. The Yersinia pestis organism was present as well.
Then, they investigated the burial practices related to the pits to determine how the plague victims were treated. What they found was surprisingly positive.
“The plague is generally associated with the digging of plague pits to dispose of the dead, but what the team found was numerous instances of normal burial and memorialization of plague victims within church grounds,” said Dr. Rebecca Crozier, the director of the osteoarchaeology program at the university.
“Clearly, some of these individuals must have been known to be victims of the plague by their mourners whom, it would appear, may have been less afraid of contracting the plague from their dead as we might assume.”
The researchers believe that the findings show signs of care and compassion for the dead, even though having humanity put them at great risk of contracting the disease themselves.
The study was published in the journal PLOS One.